Remembering
My spiritual awakening started when I chose to take yoga as an elective when I was 15 in high school. Yoga is certainly a powerful healing modality and it’s definitely something that works for me. My relationship to my spirituality was a bit of a rocky one and one I held a lot of shame towards for most of my life. Since I was a toddler I remember having a connection to spirits but I just always thought I was making stuff up because I couldn’t see anything with my physical eyeballs or hear them with my physical ears. I’ve always been able to see them with my mind’s eye and hear them like a stream of consciousness in my head. My biological mother took an energy healing workshop and showed me a few tricks growing up when it comes to energy healing. Later in life, I took the same workshop. My biological mother was definitely more open to the concept of spirituality and shared very few things with me growing up. Both of my parents were raised catholic and decided to abandon the church and give me the option to come up with whatever I believed in. When I was 6 I lost faith in God and just said he doesn’t exist and only believed in science. When I was 15 I started questioning whether or not a god or higher power existed. It was in asking this question that I found the universe as a higher power. It made the most sense to me because it felt tangible and balanced. Science felt strictly physical and religion felt too unreal to me, both extremes felt like they had no grounding or weight to them. Believing in the universe however, felt like it encompassed everything (science and spirituality) together in unity.
In March of 2017, my family and I went to Panama. I started developing chronic back pain (from trauma) at this time and yoga, energy healing, and massages were the only way to alleviate it. I was talking to my biological mother about boys and she said something fairly insightful that her energy healer told her. She told me to just ask the universe for the qualities you wanted in a person so I did. I was looking up at the stars talking to them and I just felt the energy I wanted and I said, “Hey universe, if there’s someone out there for me, please send them my way. Thanks.” Exactly a year later I met my first twin flame. I think when I asked that question I wasn’t really asking for a person, I was really just asking for something new and different and I opened up and let the universe help me.
In the month of July 2018, I reached out to my first twin flame and we ended up talking everyday and continued for 3 years. My first twin flame and I met in March 2018 and after that my boyfriend and I started having some issues between us and we broke up quite promptly. I’m pretty sure it was because I was energetically pushing him out to make space for my twin flame at the time.
My first twin and I stayed friends for 3 years even though I wanted to be with him he didn’t want that. Neither of us were ready or willing to put our pain down fully and just go into it with complete trust. We showed each other what needed to be healed and integrated but we didn’t have the tools to grow together so we separated in October of 2021. It was a very toxic situation. I stayed strongly attached to him for a year after our separation. With him, I discovered what twin flames are and I believed everything I saw online about twin flames.
I met my second twin flame in August of 2021, however we didn't really pick up the connection properly until March of 2022. With my second twin flame, the beliefs I held about twin flames rapidly began falling. With him, we truly loved one another and treated each other as such, we just needed to learn more lessons without each other to get ready to be together later down the road. We ended up separating in January of 2023.
I met my third twin flame in high school when I was 14 and he was 15. Growing up, the most we would interact with one another was just saying hello to each other in the hallways at school. In January of 2023, it was time for us to reunite and get to know each other and we did just that. We slowly began discovering just how many similarities we shared with one another and how easily things flowed between us because of our shared interests, life experiences, and shared emotional needs. It was as if we were loving ourselves in another body. In this connection, I ended up learning how to use the tools to co-create a union together.
With every twin flame I had, I learned more and more about the twin flame experience and what it needs for union to occur. I healed different layers of my wounding in each connection I had and raised my self worth with every person (which is the goal and purpose of relationships). The third one really felt like a huge culmination of everything I had learned from all of the other connections I had, and the result of them both was just peace and ease. The twin flame experience is a unique one, but it definitely isn't one I regret or wish I never started.